Do you have any bad habits? Bad habits don’t mean only about alcoholism, smoking or any such addictions. There are many other habits which you can treat as bad habits. Because those habits drag you down from the success ladder. Continue reading and if you find you have any such habits, then you must stop them. If you don’t stop your bad habits that will become an obstacle to your success in life.
Bad Habits That Drag You Down From The Success Ladder
Do you know what are your good habits and bad habits? Here bad habits means habits that can drag you down from the success ladder. Some people have the good habit of reading or writing before sleep. That is excellent. Do you have the habit of reading good books and articles?
Some people have many bad habits even while talking with others.
Do you have any bad habits such as biting your nails, pick your nose, procrastinating, fidgeting with your hair all the time?
7 Bad Habits that drag you down from the success ladder
1. Feeling pity yourself
Some people have a bad habit of always complaining. For silly matters they complain and make it a serious matter. Do you have this bad habit of complaining for silly matters? If yes, please stop it. Forget the past and take action for the future.
When you face failures don’t feel pity yourself. One failure doesn’t mean you are not smart enough.
- Learn from failures and move forward facing challenges fearless of failures.
- Never waste your precious time thinking about the loss.
- Never stop believing in yourself.
- Boost self-confidence that you can be what you want to be.
- Stop procrastinating.
Forget the past and look forward to the future. Stop whining, complaining and feeling pity yourself. Make only genuine complaint that also rarely. Otherwise, you will lose good friends because many people don’t like the same story again and again.
2. Fear in your mind
Are you always fearful about problems? If yes, learn to remove that fear from your mind. Because your fear will drag you down from the success ladder. Fear will not allow you to take action.
Don’t scare about problems because problems are part of life. Without problems you can’t live in this world. You may lose your job, money or other things. There will be another option for every loss.
So don’t be afraid of problems. Believe whatever happens is for your good. Treat all happenings as positive. That way of positive thoughts will help you to wipe out the fear from your mind and make you strong.
Stop these 3 habits
3. Wasting money
Avoid spending more than your income. Spend money wisely. Buy only necessary things. Otherwise you won’t even know where you hard earned money is going. You will waste money on things which are not important and will struggle for money when needed.
Make a budget discussing with family members where to spend more and where less. Wise people always spend money wisely. Never fly high beyond your capacity.
4. Habitual scrimping
Do you have the habit of always looking for the discount sale or always bargain with the street vendors for a small amount? If yes, you are a scrimper and better to stop this habit.
You need to save money, but for that you should not do always scrimping. You may think it show your smartness. But if you often do such things people won’t treat you as a smart person. This shows your lack of balance between your savings and your expenses. Avoid scrimping because scrimping will drag you down from the success ladder.
Bargain little with street vendors because they are not selling for high profits but only for their living. When you do bargain a lot they may force to sell it on your price even with a loss because they can’t store the material for the next day. They have to sell and earn whatever possible to adjust the money spent and buy food for their hungry children. Remember, you are taking the money from the poor whereas you will never bargain in a super market.
Pay the real price and buy necessary and favourite things. Spend money wisely. Stop bargaining to save money on petty things. Sometimes you scrimp too much and you may lose necessary things.
5. Money is happiness
Many people think money can give all the happiness in life. Are you one of them? If you are a person who finds happiness only through material things, then you can say money can bring happiness. Money is essential for a living. But money cannot give you all the happiness because money cannot buy everything required in life.
What is true happiness? Is there any magic solution for happiness? True happiness comes through healthy relationships and sharing the love. You can find happiness in good friendships. You will get many friends when you have money, but when you are poor, you won’t find many of those friends.
Who is a good friend? You must have heard the proverb, “A friend in need is a friend indeed”. This proverb refers to the importance and value of a true friend in life. It reveals that “a person who helps at a difficult time is a person who you can really rely on and he is a true friend.”
Some people don’t have good friends or don’t have good relationship in the family or society. What about you? Without good networking you can’t make your life successful. If you think you don’t need the help or support of others, then you are absolutely wrong.
Make good friends and healthy relationships in the family. Never keep bad friends. Do you know the difference between friends and frenemies? Find a few minutes from your busy day for your family. Often come together with your family and good friends. Maintain good network in the society. This will help you become a strong person in your work and get good support when needed. You will never feel insecure. You don’t know when you need a support and if you live in isolation none will be there to help you.
7. Doing what you don’t love
Do what you love. Choose the right career of your passion. You can’t be successful with things you don’t love.
Do you eat or drink something which you don’t like? What happens if you have to eat or drink something which you don’t like? You vomit or feel upset the whole day. Your mind and body both will feel uneasiness and react. The same way, if you do something which you don’t love that will never take you to success. Your mind will never be happy, but always stressful. Learn simple steps to overcome stress.
“Bad habits are like chains that are too light to feel until they are too heavy to carry.” Warren Buffet
You can make a list of your good and bad habits and try to stop the bad habits for success in life.
“It is easier to prevent bad habits than to break them.” Benjamin Franklin
These are some of the habits that will drag you down from the success ladder. Make sure you give up all the bad habits.
How to break bad habits in 7 simple steps – Infographic
Below Infographic explains how to learn new positive behaviour, which will help to succeed in personal life and work career.
Things to do
“First we form habits; then they form us. Conquer your bad habits or they will conquer you.” Robert Gilbert
Identify your bad habits and stop them. Learn good habits and follow them. Time is precious, never waste time. Have a positive attitude and optimism.
Never allow obstacles to break success in your life. Accept challenges and move forward fearless of failures.
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I am Mathukutty P. V., a proud Indian, Blogger, YouTuber. I started Simply Life Tips, made in India with love, to share useful things with the world. I believe, 'Sharing is Caring! Learning never ends!'.